Everything in life doesn't have to be a struggle, a fight. We don't always have to dig our heels n the ground and we don't always have to have our way.
When I was a kid in the 70's, I was in love with Bruce Lee. His discipline and determination was so attractive. This is what he had to say about life.....“Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.” ― Bruce Lee